Thai people are famous for their friendly smiles and warm hospitality. Over the years, many a male visitor has been captivated fallen for the warmth and care of a Thai woman. The chance of meeting Thai girls has increased in the 21st century. This is due to the loosening of cultural restraints which prevented single Thai women from striking up casual conversations and friendships with males. Improvements in technology have also been a significant factor.
Thailand and Chiang Mai’s widespread bar girl scene is still alive and kicking, but there are several other options available to foreign tourists (farang) who want to meet Thai girls. In Chiang Mai, clubs and dance bars like the Warm Up Café and Sound Up are a good place to look for Thai girls who are not part of the bar girl scene.
Warm Up is on trendy Nimmanhaemin Road. Because of the proximity of Chiang Mai University, other bars and cafés on Nimman attract younger Thai guys and Thai women. Unattached females are often willing to chat. The same is true in shopping and lifestyle malls such as Maya and Kad Suan Kaew. Coffee shops, and there is no shortage of these in Chiang Mai, are another common meeting place.
Farang guys, especially younger ones, hanging around at Suan Buak Haad Park or the plaza at Thapae Gate will often get asked ‘bai nai’ (where are you going?) or ‘Where you come from?’ by braver Thai girls. These could be working or non-working girls. Tattoos are usually a give-away as these are popular among bar girls. Non-working Thai girls will not generally go out on dates until after a few meetings either.
The opposite is true on Loi Kroh Road. The city’s unofficial red light area for farangs has plenty of girlie bars where tourists are able to chat to Thai bar girls and maybe even take a lady out for a bit of fun for a few hours or the night. The What’s Up Loi Kroh Road and Chiang Mai bars guides have more details about where to go, what to expect and the cost of some female company.
Other options for meeting Thai women for sex are escort services providers such as Layla massage Chiang Mai, Foxy Lady and other go-go dance bars, and soapy massage parlours. Layla offers 24/7 callout for services such as body-to-body massages with extras for a fee. Ping Payom and Sayuri are among classic soapy massage joints at which clients get to pick their girls for a steamy session in a foamy bath.
Since the turn of the millennium, online dating sites have added to options for people wishing to meet members of the opposite sex. Thailand is no different and guys wishing to meet Thai girls can check out prospective partners for friendship, fun, relationships and even no-strings attached sex on dating sites. Boasting over a million members, Thai Cupid is the biggest of about five Thai dating websites. Finding that perfect partner on ThaiCupid is almost as easy as A-B-C after the initial registration process.